Going all the way....

I once had a friend say this to me


"You can do whatever the f*ck you want, just own it"


This is such a great quote, for anything in your life.


Whenever new girls come to the club they always ask for tips or advice. I used to be really eager to hand out advice, but I'm starting to find a lot of times I put effort into someone and then never see them again. So I only really do this on slow nights.


Here are my top 5 tips for new girls just getting started:


1. Move Slowly...and if you think you're moving too slow...go slower.
2. Get stripper heels IMMEDIATELY! You'll save your feet so much agony and you'll instantly make your legs and butt look 100x better.
3. Don't attempt to do pole tricks until you feel comfortable (stumbling, awkward pole tricks are not sexy).
4. Say "Thank You" when people tip you.
5. Look people in the eye and smile.


Number 4 and 5 are so important. I have ignored these tips myself from time to time and realize how crucial they can be.


I want to talk about tip number 5 some more. This is where my friend's advice helps me. A lot of girls have said that they have a hard time looking men in the eyes when they dance for them. I can totally understand why...it can be awkward sometimes. But here's the thing: we're strippers, we're entertainers and it's our JOB to engage the audience...if you look past people, they'll look past you...YOU NEED TO OWN IT!